Know yourself, Engage yourself and Marry yourself

• Define your Life Purpose

• Discern and live by your Values and Priorities

• Create your Life Vision and Life Mission Statement

• Develop a Legacy that will live forever

Create a Balanced Lifestyle

• Set Boundaries and eliminate energy drains

• Create a proactive Self Maintenance program

• Evaluate and Inventory your lifestyle weekly

Surround yourself with Supportive Networks and Communities

• Seek out like-minded and like-valued people

• Create Accountability agreements with others

• Avoid negative situations and environments

Know your Requirements and Needs

• Create and live by your ?Deal Makers? and ?Deal

• Breakers?

• Make direct requests to get your needs met

• Always be true to yourself

Take your work in life seriously, but take life lightly

• Practice being flexible, fluid, and accepting

• Avoid trying to ?push the river?

• Express your passion in life with the utmost of passion

Understand the healthy romantic relationship developmental process

• Create the criteria for your Life Partner

• Develop ?Screening? and ?Testing? strategies

• Use your support system for feedback and input

Define your personal Spirituality

• Discover and walk your Spiritual Path

• Practice daily acts to activate your ?Highest Self?

• Accept life on life?s terms

Be perfectly imperfect

• Know your character challenges and work to strengthen those areas

• Accept all your errors, mis-takes and failures

• Practice non-judgment of yourself and all others

Live from Abundance

• Practice daily acts of ?Random Kindness?

• Develop a ?Pay it Forward? system in your life

• Create an affirming, fear-less inner dialogue

Be an Excellent Communicator

• Practice Active Listening as often as possible

• Commit to creating a ?Win-Win? outcome with others

• Learn to process emotions, conflict and disagreements

Get out of your comfort zone

• Learn to accept all your uncomfortable feelings and emotions

• Practice deliberate daily acts of new behavior

• Celebrate discomfort as healthy growth and development

Consciously Breathe and Smile

• Learn to be Silly

• Develop Breathing Exercises to enhance your Mind, Body, Heart and Soul

• ?Fake it til you make it?: Smile until you are happy