So you?ve decided to start searching for Mr. or Ms. Right online. Good for you! So now what? What should you consider first? Well, first and foremost, decide on what you want to get out of this experience. Do you merely want to find a movie buddy? Or maybe you?re interested in finding someone to date on special occasions such as family gatherings, or a wedding date? Are you looking for a long-term relationship? Maybe you?re interested in "Holy Matrimony"? A boyfriend/girlfriend? A sex buddy? Online dating can be fun and exciting, but before you ?jump into the pool? so to speak, it really is a good idea to think about exactly what type of person it is that you?d like to get out of this experience. You want to make sure that the person that you end up with, wants the same things with regard to being in a relationship that you do.

The first secret (and it's more of a common sense thing than a secret) of online dating would be, "Decide EXACTLY what it is that you want to get out of this experience." It really will help guide you as you make your way through the online dating maze.

Here's to happy dating!

Nicolette.

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