There are two types of guys when it comes to men who do NOT know how to attract women.
The first guy is fresh behind the ears and doesn't even pretend to know that he knows anything about women. Whatever book he picks up he absorbs the information like a sponge and actually goes out and does it.
All he needs is for whatever he tries to work a little bit and he is well on his way to learning how to attract women using whatever method he has now bought into.
The second guy is a seasoned pro he pretends to know something about attracting women because he may have had a few women in his life that he attracted and perhaps even one that he liked maybe even a lot.
Whatever book he picks up he questions, evaluates, and perhaps can not even imagine going out and trying.
He is this way mainly because he can not throw out his old system of attracting women which is flawed, because it worked for him even if it didn't get him anywhere close to what he actually wanted.
As long as compares the old system with the new theory the old system is going to win.
He has a history with the old system all be it a bad one but until a system comes along that is parallel to his old one and works better he will have a hard time even giving the new theory a try.
If you find yourself relating and being more like the first guy consider yourself lucky, since all you need to start attracting women is a good book on How to Attract Women in order to learn how to attract women.
However, if you find yourself being more like the second guy it is going to take a lot of hard work and butting head against your belief system about attracting women in order to attract women or you can go get some professional help which will greatly improve your learning time.
Either way it is your choice. |