Many men have great difficulty in accepting being in Love with their partners. Though no one can avoid the push of human nature to find Love, it forever seems to escape them. This is proven again and again by people who attain great wealth and success in life, but still yearn for the hope of unconditional love.

Some try to get over this dilemma by making sex the central focus of their relationships. Not much later do they find, even all the sex in the world leaves them with an empty heart yearning for some other elusive thing. Others simply accept their lot thinking this is what human existence is about. They look around and say to themselves ?well my friends are also in the same situation, so I guess there is no way out, let me take whatever I am getting?. These people never get to experience those great highs of passion which true Love brings.

Many become completely disappointed and permanently deny themselves all the pleasures of companionship. They become disheartened by the constant betrayals and let downs which they come to categorize as Love. To them it is an illusionary word used to coerce and take advantage of them from cradle to grave.

However, none of the above paths have got anything to do with experiencing Love in your relationship. The most important secret of Love which no one ever teaches is it is all about letting go. Control, control, control is all we are taught, but in reality how much can you control? Not much. The key is not just taking whichever random path you see available but selectively going with the teachings of your heart.